...He is isolated, and what concern has he with the rest of humanity?"
-The Brothers Karamazov by Fyodor Dostoevsky
If what we call love, doesn't take us beyond ourselves, it is not really love. Love wastefully, love selflessly, love fearlessly because...
"There is no fear in love.
But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment.
The one who fears is not made perfect in love. "
I John 4:18